When it comes to the child's carelessness, the average mom complains or criticizes, but it often doesn't work very well. In fact, it is a good way for my mother to change her mind and make an article about it.
One mom once introduced her experience:
Sometimes I don't keep my eyes on my children for careless mistakes. Instead, I look for opportunities to praise the child for his care. If the child sweeps the floor clean without adult's warning, the child avoids a mistake that was often made before, I will record these.
I put a careful watch on our wall, and every time the child was careful, I would draw him a red star. When the five stars are full, I will give him a small reward, such as taking him to KFC, etc. I gave him a big reward when the small reward was full twice, and bought him new clothes and a new pencil case. In this way, I found that the child was more careful and less careless.
The mother should pay special attention to this point, when the child appears careless, never put a negative label on the child. "You are often teach not to change", "you are a little careless, I see you this is the carelessness may not be able to really change", when parents say such a thing, the child will lose confidence.
People often have to prove psychological, the child is more so. If we try to be careful with our children and give him the opportunity to be sure and encourage him, the child will feel really careful. When the child is more and more careful, careful becomes the child's habit.