Giving children more opportunities to do things for themselves is not a way to love him, but rather a more scientific way of loving your child. In the process of doing things, the children will get more training opportunities in various aspects such as language ability, motor skills and thinking ability, which will naturally develop better. Therefore, changing the child's dependence is not only to make him more psychologically healthy, to be able to better adapt to society, but also to develop his intelligence. According to the situation of the child, the following measures are taken to correct the behavior of the child.
1.Change parenting strategies
If the child is dependent on mommy, then mommy is going to change the way she always does, and whatever the child can do, let him do it. The things that are not done should also provide opportunities for him to learn and help him to master the skills to do these things. If kids don't really do it, you can set up some fun games to get kids to learn these skills easily in the game.
2. Persuasion or replacement of dependents
Some families may hire a baby-sitter, those wonderful nanny incredibly love children love, just like love their children, this itself is a blessing, but without handle, can also be a bring misfortune to the child. If the nanny does everything, and the child is in the habit of bullying the nanny, it may be hard to come back. Grandparents or other elderly people with children, nature is also very fond of, may also bring some bad influence to the child. In this case, the parents are going to try to persuade the parents to change the parenting style, and if they can't, they'll have to change their parents or bring their own children.
3.Give your child enough attention
Security is an important factor to ensure the normal development of children's mental health. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are, it is best not to give them to others. After all, there are no more important people in the world than parents. If you have to give it to someone else, don't be too guilty of it, just give it as much attention as possible. This feeling of guilt may cause parents to lose their sense of rationality and thus create an environment that is not suitable for him to grow up, which can only harm him.
4.Give your child more love
A child who gets enough love and knows how to love others will be more independent and less dependent. Children are not their own private goods, and no one has a monopoly of power. Besides, more people love him and let him learn to love more people, which is good for his eq. Therefore, people raise as much as possible to create conditions, let the children have more opportunities to play with other family members, enjoy love and care they brought him, also try to encourage children to his own way to love you.